I know this might not be the perfect place to ask, but I’d genuinely appreciate your perspectives.
How can someone like me realistically attract and build a meaningful relationship with a woman who’s as beautiful and active (in terms of overall fitness) as the one mentioned here/Desi Johnson?
I completely understand that she, Desi, is a professional athlete with great genetics (shoulder–waist–quad ratio, bone structure, etc.)

Still, she also has that soft, cute, feminine energy that really stands out.
My gut tells me that to be with a woman like that, especially long term, it takes status

, good looks

, and financial stability



.
I might be right… but if I’m missing something, or if there’s more to it, I’d really appreciate honest insight from people who’ve actually been there or have more experience.
I know life isn’t fair and maybe I’ll never be with someone quite like her, but I’m still willing to keep trying and working on myself.