I know this might not be the perfect place to ask, but Iโd genuinely appreciate your perspectives.
How can someone like me realistically attract and build a meaningful relationship with a woman whoโs as beautiful and active (in terms of overall fitness) as the one mentioned here/Desi Johnson?
I completely understand that she, Desi, is a professional athlete with great genetics (shoulderโwaistโquad ratio, bone structure, etc.)

Still, she also has that soft, cute, feminine energy that really stands out.
My gut tells me that to be with a woman like that, especially long term, it takes status

, good looks

, and financial stability



.
I might be rightโฆ but if Iโm missing something, or if thereโs more to it, Iโd really appreciate honest insight from people whoโve actually been there or have more experience.
I know life isnโt fair and maybe Iโll never be with someone quite like her, but Iโm still willing to keep trying and working on myself.